Dying to Know Day (8 August 2026) is a time for everyone to have important conversations about death and dying with purpose, love, and a sense of legacy. This year the theme is Nobody Knows: The Secret I’m Glad I Shared.
The theme highlights the message that if nobody knows your final wishes they never will, so share them now.
According to the Dying to Know Day Campaign, many Australians feel uncomfortable talking to a family member about their end of life. So this year, the national campaign encourages creating a welcoming space for all generations to come together, have meaningful conversations and share their wishes and preferences. This year you can also add your final song to the official Dying to Know playlist on Spotify! What will yours be?
How do I start the conversation?
Starting the conversation may feel difficult or uncomfortable. There is no right or wrong way to start the conversation.
Some things to consider:
- Ask open questions or use some conversations starters
- Share your wishes while asking about your loved one’s
- Be respectful. If someone is not ready to discuss, that’s okay, ask if you can continue to conversation later
- Discuss or attend a Dying to Know Day event
What is advance care planning?
Advance care planning is about planning for the kind of care you would like in the future. It is important as there may come a time when you can’t express your wishes yourself. It also brings comfort and peace of mind to you and your family who may have to make decisions for you in the future.
Advance care planning includes:
- Talking to your loved ones and health care team
- Putting legal documents in place that reflect your choices
- Helping others understand what matters most to you.
Important documents to have in place
Here is a quick guide to key documents that help to support your future planning:
- Advance Care Directive is a legal document detailing your decisions about future medical care should you not have capacity to communicate.
- Enduring Guardian is a legally nominated person who can make decisions on your behalf when you are unable to.
- Enduring Power of Attorney is a legal representative appointed to manage financial and legal matters on your behalf when you are unable to.
- A will is a legal document with directions about important things such as inheritance, your estate, or the care of children.
- Superannuation Binding Death Benefit Nomination is a form which allows your remaining super to paid to the person of your choice. It is important to check with your super provider as rules can vary.
Please note: The rules and regulations can differ between states and territories. More information can be found here: Record your choices | Advance Care Planning Australia
Summary
Dying to Know Day encourages us all to break the taboo and normalise conversations about death and dying.
The conversation doesn’t need to be scary, sad, or distressing. Enjoy uncovering these deeply personal preferences from the people in your life who matter the most.
